Tuesday, April 15, 2008
In Memory



I designed this little case for a retreat but it was different. It was supposed to commemorate a get together at the ocean in California. When my friend died, I re-did it in her memory. It was finished by Deb Hunter and can hold photos or small items.
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Labels: Anne
Tuesday, March 11, 2008
Virtue

Needlework samplers were popular in the 19th century and some of the most common verses on samplers had to do with Virtue. Virtues are character traits valued as being "good". The Catholic church taught the seven deadly sins which are: Pride, Greed, Lust, Wrath, Gluttony, Envy and Sloth. The corresponding virtues are Humility,Charity,Chastity,Temperance,Kindness and Diligence
A typical sampler verse about virtue:
"Virtue's the chiefest Beauty of the Mind
The noblest ornament of human kind
Virtue's our safeguard and our guiding star
That stirs up Reason when our sense err" 
Women in the 19th Century were regarded as very different in character from men. Men were perceived to be dominant, assertive and materialistic. Women were thought to be religious, submissive and domestic.
Another typical sampler verse:
"The rose is a flower that fadeth away but
a virtuous woman will never decay" 
19th Century women were expected to be the "Handmaids of the Gospel" and to help direct the course of sinning men. Women were thought to naturally possess traits of goodness, simplicity and piety. 
" A good conscience is both the testimony
and reward of a good life.
Virtue is the foundation of honour and esteem
and the source of an order and happiness in nature"
Purity was expected before marriage and women had the role of maintaining her purity against the assault of the dominant and aggressive male. A book entitled "The Young Lady's Friend" (1837) advised women to "Sit not with another in a place that is too narrow; read not out of the same book; let not your eagerness to see anything induce you to place your head close to another person's." 
On Virtue
"Would you the bloom of youth should last
Tis virtue that must bind it fast
A pleasing carriage wholly free
From proud reserve or levity
Goodness & sense, an open heart
And looks unskilled in vice or art
These are the charms which ne'er decay
Though youth & beauty fade away"
Stitching verses about virtue were designed to help young girls learn what was important in their society and what was their role and duty in life.
On Virtue:
"Go on dear child and still what e'er you do,
With steadfast steps fair Virtue's path pursue,
In each event her still small voice attend,
And let her be thy first thy dearest friend,
Follow her steps,and she will tread the road,
That leads thro Nature up to Natures God" 
"Learn by the Bee from each event to find
Some hint of use or profit to your mind
Nothing so small but you may draw from thence
Improvement for your Virtue or your Sense
Honey like this life's evils will assuage
And yield you sweets in your declining age".
Posted by Deborah at 4:17 PM 9 comments
Labels: antique samplers, virtue
Sunday, March 09, 2008
Lovebirds!!
Here is a sweet little pillow from Patty
I can't believe how many people have actually stitched and finished "Lovebird" Here is a gorgeous piece from Katrina in NZ 
This beautiful pinkeep was made by Florence
This amazing hornbook is from Yuko 
This is from Petra
Thank you everyone who has sent me a photo, I love seeing all the different things that are being done with this freebie.
Posted by Deborah at 6:59 AM 8 comments
Labels: freebie
Sunday, February 24, 2008
She Gave Me alphabet

It has been brought to my attention that JCS did not print the alphabet for She Gave Me, so I am posting it here in case anyone needs it. So sorry for any inconvenience this may cause!
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Labels: JCS
Tuesday, February 12, 2008
She Gave Me

I was so excited to see my design yesterday in the April 2008 issue of Just Cross Stitch
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Labels: JCS
Monday, February 04, 2008

I found this sampler here and it perfectly expresses my feelings. Today is a cloudy, very rainy day in Arizona and it matches my sad mood at finding out about the death of a very dear friend. A friend who will be missed more than she would ever have believed possible. A wonderful mother, wife and stitcher and I'm proud I could call her my friend. She was genteel, kind, a little mischevious but had a very gentle spirit and calm aura. She was a pleasure to be with and I don't have a single bad memory of her. She was so special and was taken too soon but I like to believe that when someone we love dies that there is an angel in heaven looking out for us. I'll close with a poem I recently used in a memorial sampler I designed. I hope all who loved her will be comforted and find peace.
When on my day the evening shadows fall,
I will go down to where a quiet river flows
Into a sea from whence no man returns
And there embark for lands where
Life immortal grows.
Posted by Deborah at 10:01 AM 11 comments
Labels: Anne
Two More Lovebirds...

This one is from Terri
She changed the colors to Vikki Clayton silks and they look beautiful. Thanks for sharing with me Terri.
This one is from Tanya I love that she already has it framed!
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Labels: freebie
Saturday, February 02, 2008
New designs
I have two new designs, the top photo is 'A Small Sampler' and the bottom is 'Little Cottage', hope you like them!

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Labels: new design
Friday, February 01, 2008
And more!

This is from Crossstitchbee
I can't believe the fast needles, this one is from Nicole
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Labels: freebie
Thursday, January 31, 2008
Monday, January 28, 2008
A finished Lovebird!

Harmien did a wonderful job changing colors on the Lovebird freebie. I have to say I like them better than what I chose so give her a shout if you are liking the colors as much as I do!
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Labels: freebie
Thursday, January 24, 2008
Lovebird Freebie

- 159 Gray Blue-LT
2 310 Black
* 522 Fern Green
+ 612 Drab Brown-LT
/ 793 Cornflower Blue-MD
dark forward slash 794 Cornflower Blue-LT
heart 3688 Mauve-MD
0 3689 Mauve-LT
The above is DMC floss. I used 32 natural linen (Cafe Mocha) when I stitched this piece but feel free to choose whatever you like.
Posted by Deborah at 7:13 AM 34 comments
Labels: freebie
New Designs

This is "Fair Kind True". I originally designed this for a challenge with a friend and thought it would be perfect for Valentine's Day.
This is "Our Souls" which I did a couple years ago for my wedding anniversary and decided to finally release. Hope you like them!
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